10-Day Transformation – The Success Principles
Day 3: Stop Playing the “Blame Game”
Welcome to Day 3 of your 10-Day Transformation Series!
So… how did yesterday’s homework go?
If you completed the “Transform Your Excuses into Actions” worksheet, congratulations! You now have a list of concrete actions you can take to create the change you most want to see in your life.
If you experienced any challenges completing this exercise, don’t worry – you’re not alone. It can be extremely difficult to let go of excuses you have spent a lifetime nurturing.
… especially when those excuses involve other people or events that are beyond your control.
Do you feel like you’re a victim of circumstance?
Maybe you had a tough upbringing, with parents who didn’t teach you the lessons you needed to learn to create a successful life. Maybe your spouse has been holding you back by dismissing your ambitions or attacking your self-esteem. Or maybe government cuts or lay-offs resulted in the loss of your job, business or career.
If you’ve experienced any of these situations in your life, I feel for you. I understand how painful these things can be. But the time has come to let them go.
IT’S TIME TO STOP PLAYING “THE BLAME GAME.”
The only thing you truly have control over in this life is YOU. The sooner you stop wasting energy on blaming other people or events for your circumstances, the sooner you can reclaim that control and create the life you truly want.
Today I’m going to teach you my most powerful secret on how to steal back your power from the people, circumstances, and events that are making it impossible for you to move forward.
This is a surefire way to reclaim control over your life and start creating the life you dream of.
DAY THREE: ACTIVITY
Step 1: Watch “Liberate Yourself from The Blame Game”
Step 2: Create a list of 5-10 blaming behaviors you are going to eliminate from your life from this point forward. (E.g., “I’m no longer going to blame my parents for my lack of success in life.”)
Step 3: Create a list of NEW behaviors you are going to use to reclaim total power over your own life. (E.g., “Whenever I feel resentment towards my parents, I’m going to consciously practice love and gratitude instead.”)
Step 4: (optional) Share your intention with a supportive community by participating in the conversation with my Success Community on Facebook.
